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Let me be a man!

Ladies... do you like to take control from time to time or all the time?
Boys... ok Men....no Boys...Boys it is, So Boys do you like it when your lady takes charge? What if she takes charge all the time? Does that take away your masculinity?


I do LOVE sandwiches! Don't you? :)

How do you share control in a relationship, but make sure not to overstep? For those that are power hungry and like to take the bull by the horns all the time, you might have a difficult time taking a step back and letting your partner take control. Its nice to be able to take a step back from time to time and just go with the flow. 

And for those that like to just go with the flow all the time, can also run into some problems. You my friend might be indecisive. 

I know I'm very indecisive....when it comes to picking what I want to eat. I am very particular in what I eat....sometimes- Just ask Jaime. I am sure he will love to tell you all about it. What makes it even worse is that he is just as bad as me. We hate deciding on what we are going to eat. It is a constant battle that never goes away. When it comes to other aspects of our relationship I think we both do a good job of taking control while not being too controlling. Our relationship would be perfect if we could only decide on what we want to eat. Ok ok we have other faults too but damn the deciding what to eat thing is huge!

Are you indecisive- or do you have to call all the shots all the time? Or are you just a perfect medium? Don't lie. No one is perfect. 





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