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I feel like I've known you FOREVER.

I feel this immense connection with him. I have to have known him from somewhere. But how we barely met a couple hours ago. But we have so much in common. He makes me laugh. He tells me I understand him. Wow did we just say the same thing at the same time? 

Weird!

Those are the words that so many of the participants in Married At First Sight gushed about to the cameras in last week's episode. Were those feelings sincere or were they just caught in the moment? 

Can you truly feel like you've know someone for an eternity within days or hours or even minutes of actually meeting that person?  I feel like that is true to a certain extent, but then again I think that feeling of being caught in the moment is often intertwined with the feeling of knowing someone for an eternity which leads to feeling that immense connection. I think some people get caught up and just because they grew up watching the same cartoon they instantly feel like, "wow, they're the one it's as if we've know each other all our lives." 

Yah no. Not always.


My hubbie and I have that strong connection that literally cannot be broken....not by people or distance. There are so so many instances where we text each other the same thing at the same time. Or worse and even more funny we've gone to surprise each other with the same thing at the same time. Before we got married we would show up to each other's houses at the same time trying to surprise the other one only to find out we were at the other's house. I can honestly say that immense connection was not there in the very beginning. We did not know each other and it did take me awhile to warm up to him, like I do with anyone else. And that's ok! It's ok for a love story to be long and meaningful....it's what make our love story my favorite!

I want to know about your immense love connections. Are you in a long-term relationship where you felt that instant connection? Enlighten me people. 

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